Is moving for love a good idea?

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I’ve always been around a fairly internationally oriented group of people. Now that I’m nearing 30, a lot of these people are getting married, having kids, making some big life changes. And for this particular mix of people that often includes relocating, either within the country or abroad. So I went around and asked people if they’d consider moving for love.

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The Trouble with Loyalty

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My mother once told me I’m loyal to people I have no business being loyal to. This was years ago, but it stuck with me. At every turn in my life, when I’m at a crossroads and have to choose where to take my life next, I remember her telling me this and think about if the other party has been as loyal to me as I have been to them. This goes WELL beyond romantic love, by the way. Let me give you some examples.

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